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[quote=Anonymous]Woman here who also waited until much later in life. This is why you don't tell, unless there is some specific issue you really need to deal with (eg response to sexual trauma, etc). My "reason" is that I find the idea of random sex/hookups distasteful, want through a "heavy" period in my 20s, did a lot of shift work, and am the personality type who has a few strong close friends and it's similar in my romantic life. Wasn't getting out much, didn't feel confident about my body, etc. To put it succinctly - opportunity and inclination weren't in the same place until I was over 30. But when they were in the right place, it really wasn't an issue for me (just seemed like something I really wanted to do with this particular person) and I decided not to make it an issue for him by sharing something that didn't have some deep emotional component for me at that point. Since he shared, and it's still bothering you, you need to talk to him about it. [/quote]
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