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Yes we did not  actually kiss for two months.  The first month was kind of a wash do to scheduling/timing issues, but even still most people  our age  kiss on the first date, some have sex.  I guess I didn't really think of the timing, until I sat down because the dates have been sporadic. Which I thought was really odd.

Our first technical kiss, was more like him brushing up against me, and I think that happened because we were being stupid and I  half teasingly mentioned the no kissing thing.
Even with the little peck, he didn't do anything.

Then with yesterday's kiss. It was a real kiss, and I could tell he was into it, but it was very amature , and he told me before that he only hat 1 serious girlfriend- from college :roll:

So  I just asked him,  and he admitted it- very embarrassed.

I'm now torn between feeling bad for the guy, and wanting to run.

His friends that I met are normal guys, all 3 are in relationships. 2 married,  1 engaged. He is definitely the quiet one of the bunch, and he's known these guys since childhood.
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I don't understand the problem. You like the guy, things are moving along (slowly), yet you are asking random strangers here to volunteer reasons why you shouldn't even attempt to progress the relationship. Same with the other recent thread about the two divorced folks. It's not an ideal scenario, and someone writes in "nope, nope, just be happy with your hobbies and your grandkids".

You're looking for tips from people who are just making wild guesses. You know the guy, no one on here does.
You don't actually have a significant problem. You apparently like him. Break him in, or not.

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