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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Married men often lie elaborately to those they are having affairs with. I read an estimate that forty percent of men on online dating sites are married. No idea how they obtained that statistic.

Anyway, blaming the affair partner is silly. If you can't keep your partner faithful, you can leave or accept an open marriage, period.[/quote]

This. The men lie. I was lied to. Told he was leaving. Told he hated her. She was a witch. He was selling the house. He even moved out. The lies he told were insane. To this day I think about contacting her just to let her know how much he lied & how he let me be the bad guy while he pursued me and did nothing but create stories.[/quote]

What did he lie about? He told you the first time he was married. When he asked you out you should have said, "thanks, but if you get divorced and are SINGLE give me a call".  As in VERY MUCH MARRIED.

If he said he was single, then later you found out he lied and was married....that would be a different story.

Yes for sure move on, but I would call her.  You need to get tested to, as well as the wife because this has probably been a long time pattern for this guy.

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He told me he was [b]separated[/b] and in the process of divorcing. He also told me the house was going up for sale, which it did end up happening. As most situations, it was complicated and he told many lies. His wife ended up losing her job, getting pregnant (on accident), and other various stuff that he all accounted for through lies - which I saw after the fact. I walked away numerous times and each time he begged me to believe he was leaving her. My gut told me he was lying, but he BEGGED. I have emails, texts, conversations, photos. In the end I am the fool and I fell for his bullshit. I knew better.

I badly wanted to contact her as she must've caught him and contacted me, but he through me under the bus as the person pursuing him which was not the case.[b] To this day she thinks her husband is some saint who was stalked by some unhinged woman [/b]when he was feeding me lies and after the entire time - again, I have email after email after email to support everything I say, including all the times I asked him not to contact me.

I have absolutely moved on, it's just shocking how sociopath some men can be. At this point I don't know what I would even say to her. I keep the texts and emails should she ever contact me, I want to be able to SHOW her what her husband said and the lies he told. [/quote]

She probably knows her husband is a liar. But he provides her and her kids with a nice lifestyle, so she chooses to ignore it.[/quote]

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