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Reply to "Need advice - I have zero attraction to DH and avoid sex"
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[quote=Anonymous]Here's the truth. As you get older it doesn't get easier to fake it. You're both older, less likely to be attracted or "as" attracted to him when you were younger. Good marriages last because they are built on things that are much more important than sex. A counselor isn't going to make someone love sauerkraut, or sky diving when they truly don't. So stupid when everyone throws out the counselor card. Trust me they have their own problems, probably worse than you. No one is going to make your husband enjoy being the tool guy. If you can accept or outsource some of the house hold obligations that might help both of you. If you can do the "dinner & show" a few times a month, seems fair. A lot of men understand if they drink enough beer, even Magda from Something About Mary can look pretty good..until it wears off. Set aside a good time for both of you. I suggest have a few or more cocktails, and make the best of it.[/quote]
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