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Reply to "Need advice - I have zero attraction to DH and avoid sex"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am going to try and help you from a man's perspective. This assumes you want your marriage to work, I honestly can't tell that from your post. Most men understand sex is going to slow down in marriage, but we don't think it will slow to zero. We also can keenly sense when a woman isn't into having sex with you. My guess is your husband is reading things like married man sex life which tells you to be aggressive with initiations. Who knows. You need to have a somewhat honest conversation with him about what you need to get in the mood. Some space at the end of the day? Him to get the kid out of the house? Time to read erotica? Give him a plan, if he cares about having a sex life, he will put it into action. If you really don't want to have sex with him again, you need to consider an open marriage or divorce. But read the posts about blended marriages and see how depressing that all seems. Perhaps will motivate you to find a way to desire him.[/quote]
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