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[quote=Anonymous]You both sound very prideful.

You aren't able to apologize for your actions that hurt someone - whether you were "under the influence" or not is not particularly relevant. You did and said those things, and they hurt. You need to own that.

He isn't able to recognize that you were sick. Maybe he doesn't believe that you were. Maybe he doesn't want to bear the responsibility for dismissing your struggles. Either way, he needs to recognize that what you went through was real.

As for your overall personality, whether you're actually a bitch, etc., I don't know. I don't know you. It sounds like you are very attached to being right, which is something I would generally associate with someone who is a bitch. You are blaming him for a lot of your PPD - he isolated you how, for example? I also agree with the PP that it's possible that your attitude toward him now is attitude born of sleep deprivation and stress (about whatever). PPD is more than that, as I'm sure you're aware. But you are not going to get anywhere productive with both of you insisting that the other agree to their perception of a situation where each is putting 100% of the responsibility on the other - him by saying that you chose to behave in a shitty way, and you by saying that you had no control over it at all.[/quote]

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