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[quote=Anonymous]I would rather have no sex than bad sex.  And with kids in the house, it's often quick and rushed and not particularly meaningful and everyone's exhausted, and there's not a lot of time to take a shower before or freshen up afterwards so it feels more like a workout at the gym than a trip to Paris, if that makes sense.  Rolling around in sheets that need to be changed, or having to sleep in them afterwards.  Kinda gross.

That, combined with lingering emotional resentments, unresolved issues, doesn't make for a great combination.

I frequently find myself thinking of it as an additional chore to check off during the weekend - somewhere between doing laundry, getting groceries and putting gas in the car in terms of level of effort and overall entertainment value.

And rather than just complaining about your wife not being up for the task, maybe you could set the scene.  Change the sheets, buy her flowers, make her dinner, get a babysitter.  This will improve the environment and her emotions.[/quote]

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