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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you're on the receiving end of a family member cutting you off, why did it happen? How do you feel about it?

My younger sister cut me off. We lived together for 4 years after I graduated and she was going to school. We would fight about everything. I was messy and she was tidy; she took my car and would leave for a day while I had no way of getting around; I wanted us to be friends but she wanted to keep her "personal life" private. We used to go out together and were friends. I confided in her about everything but it turned out she did not feel comfortable sharing her life with me. It turned into a one sided relationship. Last we talked she blamed me saying I was unapproachable and she could not confide anything in me. I was deeply hurt since I thought we were best friends. [b]When I found out she had had a boyfriend[/b] which she denied having when I asked her about it, I was done. Funnily enough, she cut ME out.
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OP - are you also the OP of this post: http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/516172.page

If so, I think you know why your sister cut you out - you are controlling, judgmental and, create drama. It sounds like your sister has tried to establish boundaries with you and you didn't pick up on it and respect her need for space.[/quote]

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