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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Listen. You married your husband and agreed for him to stay home so you can work and advance your career. He gave up his to support you in yours. He isn't your maid! He is your husband. Just because you earn the money you shouldn't undervalue the contribution he has made to allow you to have your career and get all the time during the day that you spend at the office away from the kids. You get adult time all day long. You are getting home at 9 at night. Why are you avoiding your children? Why aren't you getting home and helping him with the household work? He needs a break from the kids but it sounds like you even missed their bed time. He is holding all the family responsibilities while you are off doing what you want to for yourself all day long.[/quote]

[b]Would you say this "why are you avoiding your children?" bullshit to a man who works late and doesn't see his children during the week while his wife stays home?[/b] No, I doubt it. You would say, "He is working hard all day for the family, you should support him doing that!" Oh wait, you actually did say that. About this husband. Who does not go to an office and also does not take care of the home.

You clearly did not read the OP's post thoroughly. He's NOT holding all the family responsibilities. He's not doing the shopping or the laundry, the cleaning, the errands, etc. He's getting the kids to and from school and feeding them. He's not feeding OP, who is a part of the family. Why should the OP work all day and come home to do the cleaning while her husband sits around and plays video games while the kids are in school? [/quote]

Actually, yes I would.  [/quote]

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