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[quote=Anonymous]Have not done it but getting close.  Sex is off the table from wife.  She has never been high drive, I knew that but was ok with it, but now no drive.  Married 8 years.  I have no desire to cheat, and I'm not sure I would do it because honestly my wife is the only one that I want to sleep with.  That said, partners who don't engage in sex with the other that wants it-I don't think you really understand how soul crushing it is.  Its not about getting off, hell I would be happy if my wife let pleasure her and not even focus on me, because that would be some sort of connection.  But to lie in bed at night with the person you have pledged your life to and for her to not care about what you need or want, to know after you tell her how much it hurts and offer reasonable and achievable solutions, and she says no is probably the most painful feeling in the world.  Yes we could get divorced, or she could work on herself and our marriage-which is the more logical solution?  I'm not perfect by any stretch, but there is never any circumstance that has arisen or I could ever see arising, where my wife says this is hurting me and I just say I know and make no effort on my part to change.  Its horrible, but cheating probably wouldn't address this.  I don't want a divorce, I love my wife and my life in every aspect except for this one.  Its pure hell and I'm screwed.......[/quote]

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