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[quote=Anonymous]When I was single, I said yes to some lunches with married guys and no to others. The ones I said yes to were the one where I knew the wives, and the wife might join us or not. It was all open and there was simply friendship involved - sometimes I'd hang with the wife without the husband.

If the guy doesn't tell his wife, does things slyly, etc - no way. Even if he didn't think he wanted to cheat in the beginning, after a while,you could see their minds going there.

OP, if you don't think you want to tell your wife, you've got a problem. If you think she'd freak out because you mention a single female, you also have a problem in that you're not in a solid relationship. My DH will sometimes have lunch with a female colleague, and I hear about it and don't think much about it. We work in the same large government building, and I will sometimes bump into him in the cafeteria. If his demeanor changed when I got there, then I'd be concerned. But generally, if we see each other and have time, we would join in the conversation. [/quote]

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