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[quote=Anonymous]I can see both sides of this.  I'm a married woman who has lunch with single male colleagues on occasion.  In fact, I went out with two of them together a couple of weeks ago.  Nothing odd happened, and it was kind of a working lunch where we went over some pending work projects but then also shot the breeze for a bit.  So, nothing inappropriate at all.

My husband, however, was often going to lunch with a female coworker, always alone, and turns out he was having an affair with her.  He was always "busy" for lunch so could never meet up with me when my work meetings took me near his office.  I did not suspect a thing because I have had lunch with men, alone and in groups, with nothing odd going on.  And they were going out to lunch multiple times a week, though I thought it was way less often at the time.  Also, she is quite unattractive so I figured she was safe.

OP, it sounds almost like you are kind of attracted to her the way you write.  If you have had fantasies about her and can't stop thinking about her, make sure you don't invite her for drinks or go to a more secluded place.  Better yet, bring a third person with you on the lunches - one that has work things in common.  For all we know, she is not attracted to you at all, but you seem uncomfortable, hence your question, so I would just make sure to keep everything above board and not try to expand things.[/quote]

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