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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Decide how often you can deal with seeing them--once every other week for late afternoon/dinner? Get on the same page with DH about it. Communicate the schedule to them. Practice saying, "We have no plans to leave the baby overnight with anyone. If that changes and we need help, we will let you know." Ignore their comments about your mom. None of their business. If you respond, you're teaching them that you owe them an explanation, and you don't. Let go of wanting/needing their approval. You don't. Let go of thinking you need to understand them. You don't.[/quote] Thanks for this :-) just needed some reinforcement!! [/quote]
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