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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Millennial here, no one I know prefers gifts over cash. Most of us can't afford down payments and have lived on our own or with a significant other so we don't need things, we need cash. This is the first I've heard of cash as tacky and would never view it that way.[/quote] You don't need cash, you want cash. Here's an idea - need a downpayment, start saving. Many of us had nothing out of college and saved... no fancy iPhones, gadgets or any of that good stuff. Old cars, etc.... If you can't afford to buy a house, you wait, save and then buy when you can afford it.[/quote] Did you have 100K in college loans? Then go to grad school? Thanks for the savings tips grandpa, but these days most people start out in the world with a negative net worth and less than 50K per year job.[/quote] But it's not your guests' responsibility to pay for your rent or cover the cost of their dinner plate. That is one of the tackiest things I hear every time this discussion comes up. They are guests. They are not paying admission. NP from NYC, by the way.[/quote] ITA with you. So tacky. [/quote]
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