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[quote=Anonymous]PP who just posted is back again. I just read your statement that "DH will not go to counseling." WHAT? NO. He is not allowed to make a unilateral declaration like that. You can say you need counseling. You can demand it. Why the fuck won't he do it? If it were me, I would say, "You will come to counseling with me so we can have a neutral third party help us get on the same page, or I will leave." And then follow through.

Asking for a few sessions with a counselor is not unreasonable. It is beyond ridiculous that he would dismiss that. It sounds to me like you guys desperately need it. If you are not willing to make demands and follow through, I agree with the others that he is going to fucking walk all over you, just like he has gotten angry at YOU and barked at YOU after he did something completely unacceptable. Honestly, if you two do not go to counseling now, if you cannot get him to go to counseling, I predict a very unhappy future for you. He is not acting like a team player. [/quote]

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