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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The neighbor who stares, well, so what - she probably wonders why you're staring at her. Slander and bullying? It sounds like you have drama with people who you don't even know. I doubt that a move is going to solve that for you.[/quote]

OP here.  When she goes up to the property line, pretends to be pruning a bush, and stares at us for 20 minutes while we are playing in the backyard, yes that is over the top creepy.  And yes, while we don't know them, and have barely spoken to them, she is spreading lies about us (other neighbors have told us what she has said).  She makes things up that are untrue.  It bothers me.  How would you handle that?[/quote]

Seriously, if I saw someone who was truly staring at me, I would approach them with a smile on my face and say hello, what's up. But I find it hard to believe that a neighbor literally stalks you in your 1.5 acre yard.

I don't get the "spreading lies" stuff - you say that you don't talk to any of your neighbors yet they tell you that others are gossiping about you?

I don't love most of my neighbors, and I wish we lived in a more friendly neighborhood with fewer weirdos. But then I remind myself, they probably think we're weirdos too! And I also realize that if my super-extrovert SIL lived here instead of me, she'd have a massive social network and nonstop parties with the neighbors. In other words, it's not them, it's me. And in your case, I think it's definitely you OP: you dislike everyone and you find fault with every constructive suggestion you've been offered here (as well as on your previous thread about plowing.) Either take some action to change your circumstances or quit the whining.[/quote]

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