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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. I've read all the responses so far and thank you for all the advice! In regards to my mother not having any savings.. I can not attest to how much her paychecks were when I was growing up. 18+ I paid for everything on my own and didn't receive money from my mom. She's a nurse but she says she hates working and only works part time and has for the last 10 years. She has made no effort to save. What little money she has she spends on frivolous things and going to the movies. We are all entitled to a few luxuries but she goes to the movies daily.

My husband's grandparents are in a nursing home and have seen the mental toll it has taken on everyone involved. I decided to broach the question with my mother about having a plan and she said she expects to move in with us. She'll never go to a nursing home. I told her that simply wasn't an option and stated mother in law also isn't coming to live with us. It's just the way it is. Well, she burst into tears and told me what a bitch I am for not letting her live with me. It's just exhausting. [/quote]

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