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[quote=Anonymous]1) do you really ever trust them again? yes. the pain of the memory never goes away fully but it dulls over time, and the proof is in the pudding... as the cheating spouse displays trustworthiness over and over again, trust can be rebuilt.
2) do you wish you'd just divorced when it happened? no but i've always been stubborn.
3) is your marriage better now? yes, because my husband truly transformed after this episode. it's not like everything is just grand, but is our marriage stronger than before? yes. 
4) anything else with your 20/20 vision from the future? my husband cheated with varying degrees of cheatinghood over a few years and ultimately it stemmed from his need to be valued and revered not being met. but there was nothing i ever could have done to meet that need. this may sound made up and/or cliche or trolling, but i have to say it because it's true, he finally met that need when he became a christian, a true believer, and realized exactly what unconditional love and forgiveness meant at a point when he did his worst and made our whole family hit an emotional rock bottom. he became a fundamentally different man, almost overnight it seemed, because of this realization.[/quote]

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