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[quote=Anonymous]What people do not realize is that once your spouse cheats on you, that doesn't make you instantly stop loving them that instant, even if you say so.

First your body is in a terrible shock, then once everything sinks in fully, you may experience enormous grief. If the cheating spouse feels remorse, he may be on his bestest behavior during this time...In fact he may be acting as the perfect spouse, providing a shoulder to cry on. Then the victim begins to feel the impact of the betrayal and she begins to feel a huge amount of anger. The cheating spouse may have ended his good redeeming behavior by now and may even have started getting defensive at this point.

This is when the victim realizes that at this point she actually feels no more love for her spouse. After all the hurt she feels, her body has become absolutely numb to him. Zero emotion exists. This is how things unfold for everyone...

Those that choose to forgive during this process are trying to avoid the hurt. They will do ANYthing to avoid that pain, even if that includes staying in a miserable union. [/quote]

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