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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tell OW you're so excited to have kids with her (or if it's too late to do that convincingly that you've come around) but with the divorce and selling the house the timing isn't right, that you want to do it right, get engaged, and have a baby soon, but at the right time. [b]Then drive her to planned parenthood. [/b][/quote]

I'm not going to do that. We're looking forward to raising this baby.[/quote]

BUT less than 3 years ago you weren't? And now aren't going to be a full time Father to the child you have? Really?[/quote]

I was very excited about my first child! I still am and I plan to be in her life as much as possible! I hope she's close to her new sibling.[/quote]

You realize your daughter is going to hate you, right? My best friend's father left her mother for the OW when she was 3 and she still hates her father. Some of it is the betrayal of the family, some is bc he is an asshole (only a narcissist would make that decision). I feel sorry for your daughter. You are a terrible person,[/quote]

I'll explain everything to her when she's older. I had an affair and fell in love with another woman. Am I really that terrible?[/quote]

Yes.  There were many many less hurtful ways to deal with the fact that you fell in love with someone else.  Some of them might have resulted in divorce, others not.  You chose, deliberately, the most hurtful and harmful way to solve your dilemma.  You *are* really that terrible.  The best you can hope for is that by the time your daughter is old enough to talk to about this, you will have developed the habit of honesty, made real amends and matured.  [/quote]

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