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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again.

I've already said why I feel for the wife and child (besides the fact that they're the wife and child), so I'll just refer the PP who said that I'm projecting because I'm scared this will / is happening to me, to my previous post.

PPs at 12:31 and 12:34 got it.  I'm guessing other PPs did too.

I just don't think it's right to do this to anyone.  I'm sad for my sister that she doesn't see that but I'm also angry with her because she doesn't get that she's participating in the destruction of a marriage.  I held my best friend as she cried her way through her broken marriage after she discovered her husband's infidelity.  She suffered, her children suffered, and even he suffered as a result.  It's just not something you forget and, yes, it makes me angry that my sister could even entertain the idea of doing the same thing to someone else.

I understand what the PPs are saying about being too harsh on her.  While she hasn't done anything so reckless in the past (that I am aware of), she does have a tendency to behave as though there are no consequences for her actions and this seems to be yet another example of such behavior.[/quote]

You can be 100 percent right and still act like a jerk. She is an adult. She gets to make her own decisions. You aren't the boss of her. Say your piece and let it go. If you can't, you are going to lose your sister.  
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