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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again.

I've already said why I feel for the wife and child (besides the fact that they're the wife and child), so I'll just refer the PP who said that I'm projecting because I'm scared this will / is happening to me, to my previous post.

PPs at 12:31 and 12:34 got it.  I'm guessing other PPs did too.

I just don't think it's right to do this to anyone.  I'm sad for my sister that she doesn't see that but I'm also angry with her because she doesn't get that she's participating in the destruction of a marriage.  I held my best friend as she cried her way through her broken marriage after she discovered her husband's infidelity.  She suffered, her children suffered, and even he suffered as a result.  It's just not something you forget and, yes, it makes me angry that my sister could even entertain the idea of doing the same thing to someone else.

I understand what the PPs are saying about being too harsh on her.  While she hasn't done anything so reckless in the past (that I am aware of), she does have a tendency to behave as though there are no consequences for her actions and this seems to be yet another example of such behavior.[/quote]
I think most of is get it. We don't condone your sister's behaviour, but still think your reaction is dramatic and over the top. You are posting on the internet, explaining over and over how you cannot believe she did this, blah, blah, blah. It's a bit much OP. Calm down.
so maybe your issue is your sister is at it again -- with the bad decisions. [/quote]

We AGREE with you, OP - I think a lot of us have either been in the situation or known someone in the situation.  She is somewhere between 21 and 25. She thinks she is different than all of the other women on the planet.  She is SO special that he is going to leave his wife for her!

I think we are trying to talk you down from ruining your permanent relationship with your sister over what is 99% going to be a temporary relationship for her.

This shit happens All.The.Time.  And he is probably telling her that his wife is mean, crazy, won't sleep with him - whatever he thinks she needs to hear.  She truly thinks she is special and different, and their relationship will not go down this path.  His family is truly an abstract concept to her - she is focused on being better for him than his wife is.  And yes, they have slept together and her feelings are involved.  Focus on HER not getting hurt - ignore him and his family.  She can't conceptualize hurting his wife and kids at this point in her life.

And God only knows what he is telling his wife...your sister isn't "there" yet.[/quote]

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