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[quote=Anonymous]Don't make this about you.

Lay your cards on the table:  "Sister, it is really hard for me to hear that you are planning to keep dating a guy that you know is married and has little kids.  I have such vivid memories of holding my best friend as she cried after she discovered her husband was cheating on her.  I think about the pain that she and her children suffered.  I feel awful to think that you are participating in a situation that is going to cause so much misery.

It's also really hard for me to hear because I am about the same age as your boyfriend's wife and my kids are the same age as his kids.  I know this guy's wife and kids are totally abstract to you right now, but I wish you could see how much they are like my family.  I think about my husband cheating on me, and it makes me feel sick.  I know you would never do something like this to me, and I'm so surprised that you would do something like this to someone like me.

I have always known you to be [honest/caring/whatever], and this just seems so out of character for you.  I know this situation is awful for you, too, because it's always hard to find out that you've been lied to, and I can't tell you what to do, but I am asking you to think about this guy's family and what his cheating is going to do to them.  Ask yourself whether you want to be the person he cheats with."

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