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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you could afford it, it would be great to help the oldest with her ambition, but if you're steadfest in what you have said about not paying for grad school then you should expect to stick to your guns with that comment. The decision is really what feels right to you. Would you feel guilty if you saw your DD drown in student loans or working 2 PT jobs to support herself through PA school? If you can live with the answers to those questions and the feelings associated with them then you should have a pretty clear picture what is best for your family scenario. There's always the chance that your private college UG DC would want to go to grad school so keep in mind that there may be future expectations for "fairness" too if you pay for 1 and not the other. [/quote] PAs can earn 90-100k quickly and they are in high demand. Kid can take out loans. Equal doesn't mean equal amounts. As PP says, what happens if your second child wants to go to grad school, like a private law school? [/quote]
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