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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]It sounds like your step sister wants to acknowledge your family relationship, but you don't. Which is fine, but you should admit that.

I nursed until my kids were close to 3, but I still left each for an occasional long weekend when they were toddlers (including 15 months). Extended breastfeeding is awesome, but toddler can survive without it. She's not an infant.

You are looking for excuses not to go -- again, fine, but you should admit that.

+1. There's no reason you can't go by yourself for two nights. You could be away from your 15-month-old for 48 hours if you wanted to. You don't have to attend a shower or bachelorette or pay to have your hair and makeup done. If you wanted to be there to support her, you would. You don't, which is okay, but own it.

It's NOT a two-day trip.

Isn't it supporting her by going to the wedding? I don't have to be a bridesmaid to support her.[/quote]

I don't know why you posted.  You don't want to do it.  You don't intend to do it.  You won't or can't make any of the changes or accommodations necessary to do it.  All of that is fine, but you don't seem to have a question or want advice.  Just tell her no.[/quote]

omg what is wrong with you? [/quote]

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