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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know why everyone is harping on you to be in this wedding. No one is obligated to be in a wedding, and your SS ALREADY ACKNOWLEDGED IT MIGHT BE TOO HARD FOR YOU. She has given you an out! Take it![/quote] Exactly! OP, this sounds like a no-brainer to me. Tell your stepsister that you're honored to be asked to be a bridesmaid, but with a small baby you cannot commit financially (or time-wise) to being in the wedding party; however, [b]you hope [/b]that you will be able to attend as a guest.[/quote] I agree with all of this, but don't just "hope" to attend the wedding. Make it a priority. Is this your dad's stepchild? If DH can't come, maybe you could bring your mom to babysit. Really, you can find a way to make it work. But no, I don't think you have to be a bridesmaid. Honestly, she was probably just trying to be nice. I doubt she will be upset if you decline.[/quote]
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