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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The problem with confronting him is that, once he knows you are monitoring his cell, he will find other ways to advance his agenda (if he has one).  It's almost better to not tell him you are monitoring the phone so you can see what he says to her.  [/quote]

No. No no no. You don't use your kid as bait like this. Pedophiles and sexual deviants prey on children who they think are NOT being paid attention to or do not have diligent, involved, vigilant parents. Read anything any sexual offender has ever said about how they groom: they find the kid who needs attention and love. And they make that child think they are the ones who can give it.

You let this weirdo know RIGHT NOW that you are a) aware of this, b) not down with it and c) will be up, down and all in your daughters business as it pertains to any communication with any outside adult. That is the only thing that would give him cause to back off.

At worst, he's grooming. At best, he has no boundaries and needs a firm dressing down on how grown men do NOT interact with young girls. [/quote]

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