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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most of the married women I know just aren't that into sex. They do it to please DH but don't need extra.[/quote]Oh you bet your ass if Brad Pitt winked at her, she'd want "extra". Please don't delude yourself. A married woman is just that, married,  not dead.

Speaking as a DW who has had affairs, all you need is that guy who gets your juices flowing again. [b]I will say though that I have always "traded up" from DH, looks wise, status wise, intelligent wise, everything wise.[/quote][/b]

I don't mean this as an insult, but I am a man who has had affairs and have always traded down.  Although the women I have had affairs with loved sex, so in that respect they blew my DW away.[/quote]but why would you trade down? If you are going to risk your marriage for some strange,  shouldn't it be worth your while?  Bang someone irresistible?[/quote]

Men trade down because they know they will never marry the woman, she is just a side piece. The woman they would marry would never be a side piece.

Men don't think they are "risking their marriage".

When men look for relationships they look for amazing (irresistible), when they have affairs they look for willing/convenient/gullible.[/quote]

So by your own definition, men who have affairs are predatory creeps.[/quote]

Yes. Very much. They have a serious personality defect (possibly disorder). They put their own needs above the needs of their family and their AP. They play both sides. They know which women are weak and they take advantage.

Most feel badly for the wife and kids. Though many like to blame the wife, it makes them feel secure in their own marriage.. if they are fit enough, nice enough, screw enough and well,.... it won't happen to them. but this proves to be untrue.

Really the OW should get some sympathy too, but they don't... because they "get what they deserve"... but they are so broken already, and their AP breaks them more. It's like sharks they only attack injured seals.

The men that do this have serious moral and spiritual (if not mental) issues. But so do lawyers and bankers and .... so many moral issues. We become desensitized to people treating other people as things. [/quote]

Interesting take.  So men who cheat are the lowest form of dishonest creep.  But women who cheat are victims.  Got it.  [/quote]

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