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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]F U, OP. So self-centered. [/quote]

What, whose self-centered?  [/quote]

Did you mean "who's?"

OP. Whining that ILs didn't dote over her snowflake when they were clearly going through a very, very difficult time. 
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Yeah, thought you were delusional.  The SIL who thought her infertility justified ignoring her niece's existence for four years is clearly the self-centered one.  The fact that she just thinks she can just jump right back into being an aunt now that her life is now back "on plan" just makes it worse.[/quote]

Oh ok. So you are an asshole too. Just admit that you have no idea what's it's like to go through the IF wringer for FIVE years.

Be thankful that the ILs just distanced OP instead of other options.

If OP wants a relationship going forward, the door is open. She can either try to be understanding and compassionate or be an asshole and make a big deal about her IL's coping mechanism. 
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