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[quote=Anonymous]I'm surprised at the number of people who think OP's feelings aren't justified. Sounds like SIL and BIL weren't just distant, but actively ignored their niece for 4 years. That is not ok, regardless of the reason. For 4 years, they couldn't send niece a birthday card or Christmas present but I guarantee they're going to want OP to send their kid that stuff. Eff that. I don't care how much pain they were in. That may excuse not offering to babysit, and not doting on the child, but does not excuse ignoring the child's existence. That said, OP, while I think your feelings are justified, I'd do my best to forgive and move on. No use carrying around resentment. You'll only hurt yourself. [/quote]
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