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[quote=Anonymous][quote]This is not the sort of thing that gets better. She's showing you how she handles it when things don't go her way. This was about a NYE celebration, and she was unkind. Imagine when it's something serious? You date to learn about the other person and figure out if you're compatible. This was not a good sign.

LISTEN TO THIS WISDOM OP!

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She might be a wonderful person the rest of the time (which, honestly, I'd have a hard time believing) but her behavior that night was egregious enough to leave her. Seriously, you don't want that headache. She didn't just berate you for drinking the water, she berated you on the walk to the next venue, and then followed you home to continue to argue! She tried to be nasty and she tried to be hurtful and this wasn't a heat of the moment thing, lots of time in there for her to calm down if she wanted. 
You'll be better off in the long run without her.[/quote]

I agree with the above advice/observations.

Full disclosure:  My DH has ADHD and I know all about forgetful, unmindful and unattentive.  In 20 years together, I have NEVER berated him in front of others even when after drinking.  That is just unacceptable behavior and likely just the most egregious sign that she'd not a person to settle down with.[/quote]

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