Reply to What makes a man a catch?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "What makes a man a catch? "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, I'm sure there are some alpha males who are good guys. And my point is that you can in fact distinguish the good guys from the asshats. I have predicted a number of divorces after rather limited conversations or interactions with several couples. How? Because it's relatively easy to spot a self-centered asshole. [/quote]

OMG I am so glad you are here. You can help me choose between  these guys.

I'm a female age 31 have a career, but am looking to settle down and marry within the next few years. Would ideally like to be a SAHM.
I turned to  dating sites to help me out and some matchmaking via networking. I have been on many dates the last  2.5 years, but within the last  8 months I have dated 3 men that  I am most interested. I'm fairly casual with all of them. I say fairly because I have slept with all of them even though I'm not committed to any of them at the moment. They are all nice guys in the sense that they are well liked, friendly, care about others, good relationship with family etc. Differences are:

[b]Guy 1
[/b]
Age  29
Career that takes him on the road for  likely the next 5 years, after that career is ambiguous, but will unlikely be unemployed, but career involves health risks and he does have some recent health concerns.
Very low key guy. Volunteers within the community  is good with kids and would like to have them. Lives locally now, but family is out of  the area is open to living away from family. Family is very closeknit.  Like his family.  His parents are still married after 30 + years and  from what I have seen get on well and respectfully His parents remind me of my parents, and his upbringing reminds me of my upbringing. Religion is Catholic turned Born Again.

[b]Guy 2
[/b]
Age 51
Pretty close to retired, but works when he wants to just to keep  from being bored, Does some volunteering is in to motorbikes for fun. Never married. Had one serious relationship in his 30s that ended with him losing his fiance and child. Is willing to have more children, but doesn't have to.  Isn't local but is willing to relocate. No relationship with father, very close to his  mother who is mentally ill and  has taken care of his sister when she had a life threatening illness. I like his family. He is very low key  guy.  I like spending time with him. He's very calming. We enjoy Religion  Interested in Buddhism, but mostly Agnostic.

[b]Guy 3
[/b]
Age 32
Works long hours doesn't have much career flexibility because he hasn't pursued it. Does volunteering  likes to watch sports , fish,  go to the gym, and drink for fun. Has been engaged before.  Not low key at all has an opinion on everything. Wants to be married and have kids. Close to his family. His bio parents are divorced when he was a kid, each parent went on to have more kids. His bio father has  passed away. His mother has been remarried for the  last 25 years and he is gets along very well with his  mom and stepdad. I like his parents. They remind me of my parents in some ways. I like spending time with him. He's fun and exciting and also frustrating at times. I find it easy to share things with him.

Who would you pick to get more serious with in the new year?

Maybe I should start a different thread.

[/quote]

NP. I'd pick #3.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics