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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And to the PP Who mentioned me hating bridezillas.. I never said that I did or didn't, so congratulations of receiving today's  "addition to a post that was never said" award.

That being said.. I love bridezillas. Their weddings are always awesome for the really great food and bar, or for pure entertainment value (I figure it's a 50/50).

I won't be a bridezilla because, well, I've avoided being one this long. I'm a courthouse or another couple and immediate family kind of gal. And I can hardly wear white after this long can I? [/quote]

You are  very exhausting. Count me impressed that you've kept someone interested in you 12 years.

Anyway, the vast majority of  brides marrying today have lived with the groom and have had sex and wear white.

Back to my point about you wanting so badly to be a snowflake and box yourself into a label. Befor you were the unmarried LT relationship gal with a partnership longer and stronger than any marriage. You can't be in that box any longer so now you are courhouse marriage and no white wedding gal.
When you have kids I'm sure you'll find some  motherhood category to box yourself into.
I would tell you to grow up, but you're 40  so that's pretty much a lost cause.
I can't offer you congrats because  that will send you into an emotional crisis, so I hope you continue to have a nice life you, your fiance'/husband, any kids you may have , pets, and any  boxes you choose to hop in a long the way.[/quote]

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