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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just wondering what has happened to people who was dating someone who was a good person and there was no real reason to leave them so you married them. You might have had a feeling that this person wasn't the right person for you, but you loved them and they were good and kind and you couldn't come up with a reason to break up. Or maybe you realized after you were married that being good wasn't good enough to sustain a marriage.

What happened? Are you still married? Happily? Divorced? [/quote]

This is my marriage, it was never bad, it was never great, but it was functional and we got along.  I didn't feel that 'thing' that people talk about, but I thought it was better to stay in something stable that worked than look for that 'thing' which may or may not be out there.  Fast forward, we were married and have a daughter together.  We are currently separating ahead of a divorce after deciding that we don't want our relationship to be the model that our daughter grows up seeing and thinking is what she should aspire to.  We're taking our chances that we can each find someone that we love in that way and who loves us back in that way, who knows what the future will bring.  We are also making this decision ahead of it becoming a toxic relationship that would negatively affect our ability to coparent together.
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