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[quote=Anonymous]Totally confused by all of this.  I just read something about Cindy Crawford and her husband, who have been married forever by Hollywood standards.  He said they were friends when they met, are still friends, and that is what has kept the marriage going.  Don't either of them would have an issue finding a new partner.

So what is the answer?  I have seen couples with super hot passion divorce after a few years because you cannot keep that intensity going and there was nothing to fall back on.  I have seen couples who were great people and friends divorce after a few years because they felt their marriage lacked passion (see the contradiction here?)

I have been married over 20 years, we still have sex 3-4x/week, and can have a great time on date night.  We still try to stay in shape and dress well for each other.  It has to be a combination of both friendship and horniness for a marriage to work.  During a down time, we both talked about divorce and it got serious enough that my spouse was looking for an apartment.  But divorce to what?  People expect perfection in marriage because of all the emphasis on total happiness projected by the media.  Life isn't like that.[/quote]

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