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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here...people are so judgmental.  When have I ever said it was circa 2005.  I said over a decade ago.  Also, I never said it was still an issue and this never would have come up if it wasn't for the clearance issue because what happened was so long ago.  Are you guys upset that I am okay with my DH watching regular porn that is not illegal.  Anyways, he went to our work counselor today who agreed he has a porn addiction issue but the underlying issue is beyond porn but more of why is he using porn as a coping mechanism.  This counselor is helping refer him to a therapist.  [/quote

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[b] am six month pregnant and we also have a toddler. My husband has a porn addiction and has looked at some pretty questionable things (e.g. bestiality). He has even gotten in trouble because of it. Seven month ago, he said he would change and he stopped for awhile at looking the questionable things but when there are stresses in our lives, he goes back. I just found out he started looking at it again. He has said he wants to go to counseling and fix his addiction issues, but at this point I don't know if counseling is going to do anything. Further, I just don't think I can trust him because his errors in judgement goes beyond porn. I am trying to decide whether to leave now or try the counseling thing. On top of everything, this has been a very difficult pregnancy in which I may have to deliver early. I just don't know what to do.[/b]

7 months is pretty recent no?

When it comes to kids and their safety damn straight I'm judgmental and I don't care  whose feelings I hurt especially  when that person is complicit in their potential harm![/quote]

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