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[quote=Anonymous]OP here...yes to the interviewer misinterpreting what he said and also some of the information he stated was incorrect due to his delusional state.  We will be seeking help to write the appeal letter but we still have to wait for the investigative file before we can do anything.  From what the counsel told us initially, waiting for the investigative file may take years.  His current job has not raised this as an issue yet and we are just doing things to prepare in case they do.  No matter what, we need additional information prior to his current clearance renewal, which will be in 5 years so we still have time.

The job thing is one major issue, but the fact that he could not avoid porn in general to help with the job thing shows that he has a porn addiction issue.  We never saw it as an issue before because I don't have a problem with him viewing porn.  Yes, looking at legal disturbing porn is yucky for me, but I agree with one of the posters, there are lots of porn fetishes out there so as long as it does not hurt anyone and it is legal, then I have no issues.  What does bother me is why he would look at it if he finds it disgusting to some degree too.  This is why I think there are underlying issues with him that is beyond a simple porn vs. no porn.  Further, the fact that he was viewing on our family computer when we have a toddler that also watches cartoons on the computer is not okay.    [/quote]

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