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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I don't think I'm a special snowflake or somehow better than others. I desperately want to have a nice group of close girlfriends. I jus have never been able to accumulate female friends because I guess on some level I feel like I don't have anything to offer other women. I'm not very social and I'm not very cool. Why would they want to befriend me? So I guess I'm always guarded and come across as snobby or off putting.[/quote]

If you're not very social and not very cool, then how are you getting along with men? That doesn't make a lot of sense.

You are apparently social with men and "cool" enough to make small talk and interact with men.

It comes across as an excuse. What makes you think it's exclusive to women that you have to be social and cool?[/quote]

Yes. Lots of socially awkward, shy, and uncool women have friends with other women. I'm proof of this. 
I'm trying to understand, OP, but I'm having a hard time  getting where you are coming from.[/quote]

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