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Dear OP,

Having carefully read your post, I see absolutely no sign that this woman was rude to you first, nor that she deserved to be spoken to in that way. I do see that *you* started the rudeness by writing:
"watch your tone when you're talking to people".
And of course, if you are rude to someone for NO good reason, you should be prepared for some backlash.

Honestly, I'm not sure what's going through your head, OP. You sound as if you don't want this party to be a success. You acted as if you didn't appreciate this woman's genuine attempts to be helpful. Just because she has different opinions than yours, it doesn't make her wrong or rude. Are you jealous of your sister? Are you unconsciously trying to sabotage her party? I'm not expecting you to come up with an honest answer. My mother constantly sabotages me and would never admit it, even to herself.

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OP here.

Does ANYONE not understand what I was responding to??

I reached out to HER for her SUGGESTIONS.

It was RUDE of her to dismiss my aunts sweet gesture as " lol. thats a lame party".  :shock:

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Nice editing job there. You asked her for suggestions, she gave you some, you told her you weren't inviting your sister's friends because your sister hadn't told you enough about these people, and she made a joke about it being a lame party if your sister wasn't allowed to have friends there (which is probably the kind of party she was envisioning when you asked her). And then you reprimanded her like she was your three-year-old child. Given your over-the-top rudeness toward her in telling her to watch her tone, I suspect your response dismissing her suggestions was a whole lot ruder than you've let on.[/quote]

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