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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am confused on just ONE part OP, how would your cousins and co-workers find out from his Friend's List that he used to sleep with multiple women?

Anyway, if I was in your position, I would be extremely jealous. You have every right to be so, it would make me very uncomfortable to have my boyfriends ex anythings on his page.

The main point here is that IF it makes YOU uncomfortable, as your current man, he should unfriend at least some of these women. Whether it is right or wrong, is not the issue, the issue is that this doesn't sit well with you at all.

If he laughs it off or says it isn't really a big deal, then it is entirely up to you if you want to stay with a guy who won't at the very least, take your feelings into consideration.

After all, that is what makes relationships work. A little give and take here and there speaks volumes for how committed someone is. [/quote]

Please find "enabler" in the dictionary and give a hard think about it. Compromise doesn't mean caving so your partner feels better, when the root of their thinking is unrealistic and self destructive, not to mention being destructive to a normal, healthy, adult relationship.

Jealousy is not something I'd cave to, because it has to do with the negative perceptions of the other person and nothing to do with me. Once you start to feed that green eyed monster, it only gets worse.

I'm also curious to know why he needs to address her feelings, but not the other way around? These other folks have been on his page long before OP came. Why must it always be some gauntlet throwing down condition of "if he loved you he would..". Why can't people learn that sometimes, things make us uncomfortable ONLY because of what goes on inside our own heads, and learn to adapt, like grown ups should do? [/quote]

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