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[quote=Anonymous]Hang in there, OP. The thing about cheating is that the enormity of it takes such a long time to sink in. Don't rush yourself. For now, if you still think that the marriage may be worth saving -- then don't make any drastic decisions. Most men create a narrative in their heads telling them that they only cheated because their spouse was not meeting their needs. I think they often do this as a way to rationalize their awful behavior. The fact that your husband is still focusing on you as the root cause of the affair is very telling. Are you getting any individual therapy? That helped me enormously. Everyone handles infidelity differently. Don't worry about what other people do in your situation. Do what is right for you. No two marriages are the same and no two individuals are the same. My best advice is just to take your time and let your mind and body feel all these changing emotions. You will process them over time.[/quote]
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