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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For those of you saying it's not my business, why do you feel that way?
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Because they're moral relativists (sex work = OK) who are also, perversely, moral absolutists (everyone must agree that sex work = OK).

THEY don't think that it should matter if your LO's partner was a sex worker, [i]therefore[/i] your LO should not be told that partner was a sex worker [i]because[/i] HIS opinion of dating a sex worker may not be the same as theirs.

Rather than allow your LO to make his own decision with full information, they would prefer that you betray your relationship with LO and withhold the information from him.  Since he may lack their enlightened worldviews, he must not be allowed to make informed decisions for himself.

Jeebus.  People s*ck.[/quote]

I don't really have an opinion one way or another on whether any particular person should think sex work is okay. I think that's a personal thing between the two people in the couple. I don't think that the OP's friend has a "right" to know about this anymore than he has a "right" to know about anything else his girlfriend has done in the past. The OP, however, is inserting herself into a relationship she's not part of. It's not her relationship. She's oddly possessive of this friend. [/quote]

Don't see how I'm being possessive.[/quote]

+1. Her first priority is the best interest of her loved one, not the privacy rights of a virtual stranger. She absolutely has a right to tell her loved one. [/quote]

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