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I don't really have an opinion one way or another on whether any particular person should think sex work is okay. I think that's a personal thing between the two people in the couple. I don't think that the OP's friend has a "right" to know about this anymore than he has a "right" to know about anything else his girlfriend has done in the past. The OP, however, is inserting herself into a relationship she's not part of. It's not her relationship. She's oddly possessive of this friend. [/quote]

Don't see how I'm being possessive.[/quote]

You're not, and I'd wager that PP's answer would be totally different if it were an issue that s/he cared about.

Once again, s/he's projecting her worldview about sex workers (ambivalence) onto your LO.  If it were an issue that PP personally found troubling/offensive (LO's partner had a virulently racist past for example), PP's attitude towards disclosure would likely be very different.

Bottom line:  You have information that LO does not, and it's reasonable to believe that LO would like to know this information.  Therefore, you tell LO and let LO make his own decision.  [/quote]

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