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[quote=Anonymous]Look, realistically, one spouse initiating while the other is asleep is not uncommon. My husband has tried to initiate with me when I'm sleeping, but you know what? When I don't wake up, he stops. He doesn't put his fingers inside me and masturbate, because that is sexual activity that I did not consent to and my husband is not a rapist. I can understand the OP's friend freezing up, particularly due to her previous history of abuse. The posters who say "She should've spoken up" or "That's not what I would do" fail to remember that people respond to things in different ways. Perhaps it wouldn't bother you if this happened to you. It would bother me, and it bother's the OP's friend. The real problem is that her husband does not realize that what he did isn't okay. He is upset with HER for still being upset. That's not a respectful reaction to this situation. [/quote]
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