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[quote=Anonymous] I understand your feelings of hurt and confusion regarding your marriage. It is so hard when you feel that you are trying at something and the other person is not coming along as you wish they would. It can be really frustrating living in “why can’t he just do this or that” mode all the time, not to mention exhausting. I have struggled with many of your issues in my 11 year marriage. I have a husband who works long hours and doesn’t help out much around the house. I understand the pain of feeling low on the priority list and overlooked. I want to say that marriage is a long road and sometimes husbands and wives are not at the same place on the path. Try to see his good points and forgive easily. It is truly amazing the power kind words, a forgiving heart, and a gentle spirit have on a marriage. In spite of his flaws, a husband and father who is committed to you and provides for his family is a gem-even if he’s in the rough at times :) I have referenced a couple of marriage articles below that you may want to check out if interested-just copy and paste into your browser. One is on marital conflict and the other is about the disillusionment that can happen as we get further into marriage. HTH! Understanding Marital Conflict article: http://bit.ly/1MgLOYU Understanding Difficulties of Marriage article: http://bit.ly/1XVaVYO[/quote]
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