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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When couples marry they need to start their own holiday traditions that do not involve going to parents/in laws houses. You have your own house now and three children and the time has come to spend holidays at your house and start your own traditions. Also, remember this when your children have their own families and do not guilt the,m into spending holidays with you.[/quote] +1 My DH and I did this early in our relationship. We just told everyone when/if we were coming, and that was that. No one gets dibs, stipulations or whatever else. We decide what we are doing (his family, my family, or our own home) and that is that.[/quote]
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