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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - hahaha, I love the assumptions made on this forum. I actually DO have a good relationship with the woman I report to. I keep all of this to myself. I don't share my thoughts with anyone at work. I am venting on an ANONYMOUS forum, like all of you do. My attitude comes across as very positive at work. Also, I am not at all bitter about my job, having advanced as far as I can in my area at this company. It's perfect for me right now, with young kids at home. The truth is, there ARE unintelligent supervisors out there, and mine is one of them. I can see that this fact really frightens all the supervisors reading these posts. [/quote]

NP here. Maybe you are projecting a good attitude, but you don't actually have a good attitude and that is coming through in all your posts.

Yes, there are unintelligent supervisors out there. There are also very intelligent supervisors out there and you may have one whose talents you don't get to see. The larger issue is how this impacts your work life. I work for a woman who doesn't have the subject matter expertise I have and knows it. I wish she were wiser in my niche field, but she isn't, so I have to do more work advancing my subject matter expertise than if she were more knowledgeable in my area. That said, it would not occur to me to dismiss her as being stupid or useless or unintelligent. I don't know the intricacies of her job and I have better things to do than to dismiss her because she isn't the mentor I hoped her to be.

What I choose to do is to work as best I can with the situation I have. I tell her upfront what I need and she helps me develop my skills. I don't judge her. I just do my job and remember that not everyone is an expert in everything and I need to work with her to get the job done.

The problem with you, OP, is your attitude. [/quote]

As I said, my attitude is fine at work. I am well liked. What part of venting on an anonymous post don't you understand? [/quote]

Oh, I understand venting on an anonymous board just fine, OP. What YOU don't seem to understand is that people on the same board will respond to your venting and try to help you understand the faults you display that contribute to your need to vent. People here are trying to help you with their responses, and you only seem to care about your venting. That's fine. Buy yourself a diary and vent where no one else will read and react to your words. If you choose to put it out here, you're going to get responses. Clearly, you don't appreciate the responses and help being offered.

Hear this. Your attitude is not "fine". You may be portraying a fine attitude at the office, but you're a fake. You're judgmental and bitter. That is your true attitude and it is apparent from your very first post. Own it, because if you don't, the disconnect between your fake work persona and your real attitude will continue to frustrate you and cause you to think "venting" is an appropriate way to deal with your issues.

Either change your attitude or find a new job. Those are productive ways to deal with the frustrations you are experiencing. Otherwise, you're just whining and excusing yourself by calling it "venting".[/quote]

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