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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Any woman who is worried about the cost of a ring is not the woman for me. That money is obviously better spent on honeymoon or actual married life.[/quote]

That is why you should get to know these things about the woman you are dating.  I find it hard to believe the the OP's boyfriend doesn't know that she is the kind of girl who cares about her ring.  That probably comes with a lot of other things that he likes about her (cares about/spends her time and money on her appearance).  And now he is trying to get away with less than he already knows she expects.  I get why she is pissed.  He knows what he should do, and he wants to see if she will accept less.  And she can't really say anything because he will think she is materialistic.  Even though she is AND he already knows it.[/quote]

It's not about getting away with less than she expects...he can't afford what she expects, plain and simple.  If that is a deal-breaker she needs to let him know, and not pretend that she isn't materialistic. A responsible adult does not go into debt for an engagement ring.[/quote]

She shouldn't have to say it.  He should just know it.  And he does.  That's why he brought this up BEFORE he even bought a ring.  And how do you know what he can afford?  I am sure that the OP knows his finances better than you do.  I am not picturing a guy who buys his clothes at goodwill and drives a beater car and OP hit him with this out of the blue.  [/quote]

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