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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks for the response OP. I would add that you simply cannot get married yet until you both go to counseling together. Your finance has not dealt with this. Its also likely that his younger brother has been abused. A counselor will help you all talk about boudnaries. I know it seems like kids are far off but before you get married you must establish tha t your future kids will never ever be alone with his parents. At a minimum he should talk to his younger brother. That may be very eye openng and cathartic.[/quote] OP here. We already have the wedding date set for June. I'm hoping when I see the counselor I will get ideas to convince him to come with me and work everything out. I know this has to be dealt with. I just didn't want to push too much when we were talking, for fear he would shut down on me again, it didn't seem right to give him the ultimatum then and there.[/quote]
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