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The point is, physical attractiveness is important to both men and women.  Get over it. [/quote]

That's fine, just own it. Let's not tell people that just talking to people of the opposite sex like humans is the key to having a shot with them. Let's be honest that you have to be close to their physical attractiveness before those other much vaunted - but less important - human qualities matter.[/quote]

Oh, I do.  I'm pretty upfront- a guy has to be hot to get my attention.  Period.[/quote]

Good deal. When I was a younger man, pre-internet, trying to read up on "what a woman wants," magazines and books and the stuff I got through the popular media was full of bullshit like women want a sense of humor, a sensitive guy who listens to her, a gentleman. Sense of humor doesn't hurt and frequently helps. Sensitive and being a gentleman can actually be negatives if you don't pull it off the right way. But a good dose of "if you're not as attractive as she is, don't bother because none of that stuff matters as much as physical appearance" would have been helpful. 
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Yeah, I wish this was more obvious.  Truth be told, a hot guy can ruin things by being a douche, easily.  But the fact of the matter is, if there is not that instant attraction, it's really hard to raise your stakes with a "good personality".

Women are just as "physical" and "visual" as men, I just think we're told not to express that.

There's a reason why women pin up pictures of Chris Hemsworth and not Ed Sheeran.  Simply being a nice person does not entitle you to the other person being sexually attracted to you. [/quote]

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